“Only by much searching and mining are gold and diamonds obtained, and a person can find every truth connected with his being, if he will dig deep into the mine of his soul.” — As A Man Thinketh
The classic book Acres of Diamonds is the story of a person who sold his home and land to travel far and wide in search of diamonds, only to die penniless. As the story goes, the new owner discovered diamonds on the very property that the old owner had ignored.
A lot of times I think we act the same way when we’re trying to “fix” something in our life. Whether it’s happiness or self-esteem or love that we seek, many times we look outside of ourselves to find the answer. We look to a spouse, a friend, a child or a parent to fill the void. Perhaps we expect the answer to come from our pursuit of our occupation or other interests. Or we expect a new home, a new car or a new boat to satisfy our “hunger.”
But, alas, like the poor farmer in Acres of Diamonds, our search comes up empty handed. And just like the story, diamonds are waiting to be discovered in our own back yard. As James Allen points out, the only way to find the gold and diamonds is to “dig deep into the mine of the soul.”
One of my most favorite authors, Jim Rohn, says, “The greatest source of unhappiness comes from inside.” Conversely, that’s also where the greatest (and only) source of happiness comes from.
Instead of searching far and wide, spend some time every day searching inside. Instead of expecting something outside to fill you up, learn to fill yourself from within. Make a commitment to read more of the material that will help you discover who you are. Make a decision to grow. As Jim Rohn also says, “What you become directly influences what you get.”
And that’s worth thinking about.
Absolute right…so connect your inner side with the right Source. Thanks Jan.
Yess. It’s called *self*-esteem for a reason. Self esteem is the gift you give for yourself. So does happiness. And pretty much everything else. It just depends on the self. As always, well written and inspiring entry!
I completely enjoyed this article. This is so close to home for me. I have a great wife, a beautiful daughter, and a job that I enjoy and pays well. I feel as though I should be doing or pursuing something more with regards to employment I have this “hunger” as you stated, this desire to be more. I wish I knew what it was, I guess I’ll take the advise and search deeper inside. Thanks